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How has your life changed since starting college?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 01:05

How has your life changed since starting college?

In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

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How do flat earthers explain the Earth being stationary? Is this concept considered impossible?

I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

Do you think the constitution and laws should be taught in school?

How has your life changed since starting college?

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

Is it okay if I am not interested to talk to any of my relatives as I saw the real faces in my brother's marriage as none of them helped us rather were a kind of disappointment and were talking bad?

From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.

Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

I’ve become more responsible.

Can you explain the difference between “mi piace” and “mi piacciono” in Italian?

From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.

I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

Why are conservatives banning liberal books? Why are conservatives so offended by the teaching of racism and other topics?

Let’s come to the answer.

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

Why are we explaining today’s “climate change” as driven by human related “green house” gasses when natural “global warming” pushed sea level up to the “shores” of Topeka with no human contribution or even presence? Is Occam’s Rasor applied?

For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

Who are the actual "science deniers": people who wait until vaccines are proven effective, or people who believe that there are more than two genders?

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.

made friends

I’ve realized the real value of money.

What is your wildest experience in Bangalore that you haven’t told anyone?

I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.

From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

Why did Donald Trump and Melania Trump sleep in different rooms?

Confidence is the key.

In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.

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If we do not know the name of the father of a child, e.g. a foundling, an illegitimate, etc., then to whom should the bin or the binti of the child's name be applied?

Thanks for reading my answer.

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

Backstory-

What happens when you have paranoid schizophrenia?

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

-Hitesha.